Craig Hoyle, NZ
Part 2 of the Craig Hoyle story
If you ever wondered how the Exclusive Brethren treat those who dare to question their rules and lifestyle, Craig Hoyle’s continuing story will tell you far more than you probably want to know.
Craig Hoyle is gay – a ‘mortal sin’ and, as far as the Exclusive Brethren cult are concerned, a sickness that must be suppressed and cured. The way that Craig was treated is both heart-rending and anger-inducing.
How dare these people call themselves ‘Christian’!
We continue Craig’s story below. The first part of his journey can be read here - ‘What is it like to be gay in the Exclusive Brethren’ -
20-year-old Craig Hoyle, who was brought up in the Exclusive Brethren Church, risked losing everything when he told his priests and family he was gay.
After several meetings with church leaders, and a period under hormonal suppressant medication given to him by a Brethren doctor, Craig just couldn’t take it anymore. He was placed into the first stage of ‘excommunication’.
Craig, you are amazingly strong! You describe the Brethren’s view on homosexuality very clearly. The ‘fall-out’ from ‘coming out’ is likely to continue for you for many years as you adjust to life without your own family’s support and love. May you have an incredibly blessed life for standing up for your own rights.
Kia Kaha Craig!
The eb hierachy will never quieten anyone who wishes to speak. Life must have been hell in that cult and glad you are a young man who has his whole life ahead of him. Best thing you have done. Speaking out, good.